Let’s say you have a dream.
You want more for your life and your business.
You have a gnawing at you that you can’t shake.
You want to do SOMETHING.
But you don’t know exactly what.
Or you don’t know what it looks like or how exactly to get there.
Your goals seem too big.
The mountain is too high to climb, it seems.
So you don’t do anything.
But there is always that thought in the back of your mind…what if I had just gotten started? Where would I be??
We live in a world that LOVES the idea of perfection.
We focus on the people who have gotten ‘there,’ see that as the end-all-be-all and feel that HOW IN THE WORLD COULD I EVER GET THERE?!?!?
AND there is also focus on the failures, those who have tried and failed. And that is seen as some sort of horror show, embarrassment, loserville.
It makes it all harder, this all-or-nothing mentality.
This winner/loser paradigm.
A few months ago, I decided to just get started.
Move forward on all the things that were in my head and that I wanted to do.
At that time, I did not know what my ‘getting started’ would look like but I knew at some point I would just do it and get started.
After writing down what I wanted and some intentions and goals, I figured out a way to begin.
So I did.
The Summer Blitz was created.
The Expansion Academy was started.
And I will tell you this, these have had big benefits already and I’m just getting started!
Here are just some:
1. You begin to find your voice
Whether you are blogging, making videos, public speaking, writing, seeing patients or just wanting to grow your business, any forward movement usually forces you to clarify your point and raise your voice (not in a hostile way but in an authoritative, confident way). And you cannot do this until you try. Your voice will never be truly heard if you do not get started.
2. People find you
If you do not get started, no one can find you. Whether you want to create a tribe of followers, more clients, more patients, more money or more creativity you have to get started so people can find you.
3. Opportunity flows
It seems that once you get started in a forward movement, more opportunity comes your way. Since you are committing to getting out there and moving forward with your dreams, the Universe hears you and things begin flow in miraculous ways.
4. You cut the fat (literally and figuratively)
As you begin to move forward you get more clarity on the things you want and most importantly THE THINGS YOU DO NOT WANT. The extra fat gets trimmed from your dreams and goals because you are realizing what works for you (and your audience) and you move forward with that and not the stuff that does not work.
And also!!! When you are in the flow of your dreams, in the flow of expansion and possibility, you are excited, busy and a lot of the time having fun. I notice that I am less likely to need comfort foods or drown my sorrows in a few glasses of chardonnay. While I am not dropping pounds left and right, my weight has lowered for sure and I am feeling great. I’d say that’s a HUGE benefit.
There is never any guarantee that money flows to you just because you have gotten started. But what is true is that when you are in this flow – creating, moving forward, helping, healing, getting in your grove – if this is truly what is to be, the money flows.
In just these past few weeks, I have increased my followers and mailing list, gotten clarity, opportunity has knocked and I feel really great – body, mind and soul. Since the money I plan to make from my business is not part of the picture yet, the money is not there BUT…
I am committed to what I am doing and not only am I having fun, I am moving forward with my goals and my dreams and that feels amazing.
So how about you?
Are you going to get started?
Just fucking do it?
I hope so!!!
If you are feeling stuck, trust me, I’ve been there and it’s okay.
Just get a journal and start writing. Your hopes, dreams, goals, intentions and frustrations (and when those frustrations go away, rip those pages out!!). This will help you, I promise. That is how I started by just writing it all down.
Share it all in the comments below or on Facebook – tell us if you are getting started, you’ve gotten started or your a bit stuck in frustrationville.
Let’s all cheer each other on!